How people pleasing absolutely kills all creativity, progress, and erode your soul

Worrying about what other people think will kill all creativity, progress, and erode your soul
  • We all know this, we all say this, and we all think that we’re true to ourselves, but very few people actually embody this principal
  • When you fully accept who you are and know what you were put on this earth to do and don’t give a single fuck what anyone thinks you’ll often make a massive impact on the world
  • All the people who have ever changed the world never gave a single fuck what people thought of them – they’re all considered crazy until the world catches up to their brilliance – you have to be “crazy” to change the world
    • Leonardo Davinci, Jean Michel Basqiat
    • Kanye West, Post Malone,  – all musical artists
    • Elon Musk – all innovative creators
    • Albert Einstein –
    • Galeleo
    • This list is endless, but I wanted to provide a few examples
  • Why we fear being ourselves
    • If you were different you were kicked out of the tribe in caveman days – which meant you’d have to fend for yourself which was far more dangerous in those days and often resulted in death or starvation
    • That’s imprinted in our old brain and effects us subconscoiusly
    • Today, we don’t have any of those dangers, but our brains subconsiously act like we do
    • Therefore, we refrain from being “different” and we constantly worry about how others think of us
  • How to not give a fuck?
    • It’s all about expanding your social comfort zone
    • Wear some crazy clothes that looks completely ridiculous and go grocery shopping
      • I’ve LITTERALLY worn women’s leggings and went grocery shopping
      • I ran around in a green morph suit downtown just being an idiot
    • Post photos on social media of the same thing, get feedback, read it, and learn to be completely unbothered by anything anyone says